My
Father's People: A Family of Southern Jews. By Louis D.
Rubin Jr. Baton Rouge: Louisiana State Press, 2002. 139 pages. $22.50.
Throughout
his academic and literary career, Louis D. Rubin Jr. has spent much
of his time exploring the South. With over 50 books to his credit,
Rubin has enabled students, writers, and interested readers to explore,
experience, and be enveloped by Southern literature and culture.
His newest effort, My Father’s People is more personal yet
employs the same graceful and concise prose that Rubin’s admirers
have come to expect. In his new book, categorized as a family memoir,
Rubin accomplishes much more than merely relating the story of his
family’s immigration and acculturation experiences from Russia to
Charleston, South Carolina, during the late 19th and 20th centuries.
Though he is a descendant of a family of four brothers and three
sisters, Rubin tells the story of his father and three uncles whose
life experiences, according to the author, were fundamentally shaped
by a prolonged separation from their parents. Because of financial
crises and illness, three of the boys were sent to the Hebrew Orphan’s
Home in Atlanta for a number of years. Rubin’s narrative is a story
of attempts by boys, and later men, to overcome childhood abandonment
and succeed in the larger American society.
More importantly, Rubin argues this is a distinctly Southern story
where three men struggled to acculturate into a racially charged
and class-stratified South while still retaining their own individualism
and, in some cases, their Judaism. Some succeed more than others.
Eldest is Harry, who constructed his whole identity around an ideal
of white, male, conservative, and Southern respectability. He was
not in the orphanage but was forever changed by that experience
and positioned himself as the family patriarch. Next is Dan, a Broadway
playwright and a Hollywood screenwriter who attempted to stay true
to the crafting and staging of human experience despite temptations
of wealth and an eventual loss of skill, and whose own perceived
failure prevented his return home until his funeral. Third was Manning,
a distant and somber man, a self- conscious Jew, fiction writer,
and magazine editor for the Evening Post. Finally, Rubin’s father,
Louis, was a successful electrician felled by illness who later
became a nationally known weather prognosticator.
There are many fascinating stories within the individual sketches,
but Rubin’s analysis moves beyond the traditional ethnic family
narrative and is an important breakthrough for the genre of family
history. First, it is an honest and respectful family memoir, not
a lionization of immigrant and first generation experiences. Through
Rubin’s words, we experience these men as real people—not heroic
archetypes—struggling with acculturation, financial problems, societal
expectations, parental pressures, personal goals, interpersonal
struggles, religious imperatives, their masculinity, their egos,
business successes and failures, illnesses, and aging.
Additionally,
Rubin admits to the difficulties in cultivating these narratives
through interviews and a lack of family evidence, common in eastern
European migration stories. Either because of memory lapses or a
reticence to recall painful or embarrassing memories by interviewed
family members, there are many silences in this family history.
Rubin respects these silences and resists the all-too-frequent impulse
of imposing an authoritative voice to fill in the gaps.
Finally, Rubin contributes to the field of American Jewish history
as he strays from traditional immigrant and first-generation narratives
that either privilege complete Jewish fidelity or total assimilation.
Rubin’s father and uncles, each in his own way, related to their
Judaism differently, thereby testifying to the growing historical
notion that Jews in the South crafted individual and distinctive
Jewish identities modified by the Southern space and time.
The only disappointment within Rubin’s work is that he did not spend
more time analyzing the experiences of his aunts. Dora, a clerical
worker and a devout Jew, receives her own chapter. There were also
two younger sisters, Esther and Ruthie, who receive barely a mention
in the study. It would have been interesting for Rubin to include
the sisters in his comparative analysis. Applying gender to his
study would surely have enriched our understanding of the effects
of immigration and acculturation on the family and individual experience.
Even through Rubin’s brief description of his aunts, it is clear
that their experiences, like those of their brothers, stray from
traditional understandings of the female immigrant and first generation
experiences.
Despite this, Rubin’s work is a significant contribution to the
field of family memoirs. Rubin’s short volume demonstrates the importance
of recognizing that immigrant and first generation experiences were
complex and contradictory and encourages scholars to investigate
nuances rather than searching for all-encompassing and conformist
narratives. Finally, My Father’s People would also be useful
to people interested in ethnic, immigration, Southern, gender, and
Jewish studies.
Jennifer A. Stollman